April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month

To The Eagle:

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month in Washington state. Locally and around the state, individuals, youth, communities, schools and agencies will be taking action to increase awareness about sexual assault and to end sexual violence.

The issue is pressing. One out of every four girls and one out of every six boys will be sexually abused before the age of 18. A recent survey conducted by the Washington State Office of Crime Victims Advocacy found that one third of all women in Washington state have experienced some form of sexual assault.

Sexual violence occurs when someone is forced or coerced/manipulated into unwanted sexual activity without agreeing or consenting. Reasons someone might not be able to consent include fear, being underage, having an illness or disability, or being incapacitated due to alcohol or other drugs.

It is important to keep in mind that sexual violence is never the victim's fault, regardless of what he or she is wearing or doing, including if the victim has been drinking or is in a relationship with the perpetrator. According to a recent study, 69 percent of rape victims reported feeling at least somewhat or extremely concerned that others would blame them or hold them responsible for the rape. A significant part of the trauma that sexual assault victims face is the shame and stigma associated with the crime. It is our responsibility to show survivors that we hold offenders, not victims, accountable for sexual assault.

The Charlotte House is your local Community Sexual Assault Program. The theme of this year's campaign is I Can Be The Solution. By discovering and rethinking the ways that people can be the solution this campaign seeks to make a meaningful impact on sexual violence. You can be a part of this campaign by wearing a teal ribbon which we have placed at St. James Family Center, The Bank of the Pacific and Bank of America. You will also notice table tents in local restaurants and businesses. Staff from The Charlotte House will be working with students at Wahkiakum High School in addressing this issue through education and awareness activities.

If you or someone you know has been the victim of sexual violence, or if you would like more information regarding Sexual Assault Awareness Month and how you can help, please call The Charlotte House. We can help. There are trained advocates on call 24 hours, seven days a week. All our services are free and confidential. Our number is 795-6400 or 1-866-795-9381.

Susan Schillios

The Charlotte House