Prevention is key in teen dating violence

To The Eagle:

Did you know that 1.5 million teens experience abuse in their relationships each year? That equals roughly one in three teens becoming victim to verbal, emotional, physical and sexual abuse. In fact, females between 16 and 24 experience the highest rates of relationship violence.

Teen relationships are just as important and complex as those of adults. They are not just "puppy love" or "kids being kids." Abuse in teen relationships is not just unhealthy; it can be scary and very dangerous. Research shows that it has a major impact on the overall achievement of the students at their school -- dating abuse can lead to higher rates of alcohol and drug abuse, teen pregnancy, suicide and other forms of violence on the school campus. I feel it is important to teach teens about dating abuse and their right to healthy relationships.

Dating violence is a pattern of behaviors used to exert power and control over a dating partner. Teens experience the same types of abuse as adults:

• Physical abuse: the intentional use of physical force to cause fear or injury.

• Emotional abuse: non physical behaviors such as threats, insults, constant monitoring, intimidation, isolation, stalking or digital abuse.

• Sexual abuse: any sexual behavior or contact that is unwanted or interferes with the ability to consent to or control the circumstances of sexual activity.

If you or someone you know is experiencing teen dating violence, or you would like to know more about this issue, please call us at 795-6401 during business hours; 795-6400 24 hr. hot line or our toll free number 1-866-795-9381.

Domestic violence doesn't wait. It starts when relationships start.

Susan Schillios

The Charlotte House